What talents do I have?

Since I am in Greece, I had the opportunity to interact with people from here. Beyond the common facts of life, I spoke with some people about ZENLA Project. When they had a general idea about the Project, the question they asked was:

How do I find out what are my native skills, aka my talents?

Since this question occurred on the Romanian market more often lately, we belive that starting an online discussion with all interested people will add great benefits to all online and offline community.

I already had some (long…) discussions with Monica and we are working to make things as simple as possible (see KISS rule).

It is obvious for us that the question above arises due to common perception that identifying a talent, requires a long time, a sophisticated technology and experts.

Well, we belive that this method of identifying and supporting talents, usually called scientific, only looks good, but in fact, is mostly a failure.

Only one argument to backup this statement: How many people can afford paying the repeated sequence of scientific tests that are required to identify and clearly distinguish the native talent, among other latent skills of a person? Those skills might be developped up to a certain level, so a further research is usually required to distinguish where best results can be obtained.

And here we are in front of a dilema: How can we be sure that the method points to the correct direction?

After 51 years of life, the only reliable method I know, is simply called TRIAL AND ERROR.

But in this case, we are back to where we started, only that we spent a lot of money trying to find out what those talents might be.

After studying the methods usually used to determine the native skills, which mostly consist in psychological tests, I realised that about 90% of the tests I studied, lead to nowhere. Why? Simply because they are tests with predefined answers. In more than 60% of the tests, the answers were way out of the range of my choices. So, under such circumstances, the only choice left, was to choose the closest match. But in this case, the answer is already distorted, since I know all of the answers provided reflect a different choice than my REAL CHOICE. From the rest of 40%, most of the answers, were pretty close, but still OUT OF RANGE.

So, honestly, I questioned myself, what is the relevance of such a boring and time consuming series of tests? Just to find if I can be classified more or less in the average category?

This is where I started the quest for a reliable, affordable and practical solution.

Basically, this solution consists of finding answers to the following questions:

1. What did I do until now? This question leads to a list of actions and activities. The list grows in time, as we evolve and gain more life experience.

2. What’s that I really enjoyed from all those actions/activities? This answer leads us to narrowing the primary list, to the items that we really enjoyed to do. And here we have the first clue, or the catch, if I might say so. This is the direction we have to dig further for information.

3. How much time did I spent doing the things I like? This is an extremely important answer, since the way we spent our time and, to be very specific, the amount of spent time with each activity, connected to the inner satisfaction we get from doing that activity, comes the valuable information regarding the talents. I will detail this further, in the next article.

4. What brought me the most money from all I did? Obviously, this question in fact adresses the efficiency of that action or activity. This is why the form of the question has to be changed, according to the age of the person that aims to find out her/his talents.

5. What is the best gain from all these actions/activities? This answer primarily means computing the value expressed in currency (money), obtained per hour. And this is because the most important resource spent in doing everything we do, IS THE TIME. After computing those figures, we can sort the list, according to the best results we obtained.

So, actually, we are aiming to establish a meaningful relation among some extremely important elements:

(A) The amount time spent doing something;

(B) The amount of satisfation, of feeling happy, we got doing certain things;

(C) The amount of recognition we gathered, throwing on the market our products and services, which are the results of the finalised actions/activities.

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VRE – A ShowCase to make you more confident

VRE A ShowCase to make you more confident


This post is an excerpt chapter from the book “The Freelancer’s Way”, the FREE version.

Even if it looks too technical, this chapter has only one purpose:

To illustrate what YOU CAN DO just using all kind of OTHER RESOURCES such as TIME, and SKILLS. Among those skills, here are a few examples: relationship, computer a laptop , internet, software, foreign languages, digital photo camera, digital videocamera home video and tons of FREE RESOURCES that I could find on the web.

Monica and Serban


This group is designed for all those interested to learn and teach themselves, using a computer connected to the internet.



This group is mostly designed for spiritual self-development, based on the studies and researches I made during last 20 years. As a result, I conceived a very easy method that enables you to check your energetic level and status on each of the seven chakras and further more than that, make special measurements regarding the level of compatibility among you and others, what you should do to improve your energetic status and overall achievements. Law of Resonance is here implied aans as a particular form of it, the Law of Attraction.



This group is designed for people who belive in themselves and belive that everything is possible, because the goldmine of each and everyone is INSIDE OF US. Here is the place we share our experiences, we promote our ideas, develop projects, and make new online friends. It is aimed mostly for the ones that are interested in doing business and BECOMING SUCCESSFUL, in all areas of life.



Designed to share experience and ideas on How to make money. The approach in this group is different as the usual paradigm. Here, we belive that money is the result of the flow OF THE VALUES.



This sites are the means we share our knowledge and experience and also a showcase of what can be done using the most of the FREE available resources. This is the philosophy and SPIRIT of SHARING VALUES that we want to promote here.




This is a good showcase on what and how the video can be used to develop some of the artistic skills, using a home DV videocamera, a photo camera, some video-editing software and video sites. Meanwhile we can promote ourselves and our skills, just uploading to sites like YouTube, Google Video, and the like:



Our sites. A sample of what YOU can do to start an online business, without spending a fortune, or even spending just a few bucks:




SERBAN STANESCU BLOG. This one is in our primary language, Romanian. One of the first blogs. Usually listed first place in Google with serban stanescu, or even proiectul ritmuri interioare, the former title of the actual ZENLA Project:


MAKE MONEY WITHOUT MONEY BLOG. We discuss here in the published articles HOW to make MONEY, WITHOUT spending money. Obviously, we want to prove here that it is possible to start an online business without first spending money. The proof are those sites you are now reading about. Everything done here to build this Virtual Real Estate, was built using FREE RESOURCES available on the internet, and our skills, be them native skills (talents) or developped skills, such as computer skills & knowledge:


INNER RHYTHMS BLOG (PROIECTUL RITMURI INTERIOARE). Another blog in Romanian, designed for the ZENLA Project:




ZENLA PROJECT BLOG. The Zero Negations Language Project Blog:


We hope that we did prove our point with this list of blogs, groups, sites, and eBooks.

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The Next Level in NLP

Some people asked me “What’s about Zenla?”. Well, here is a different approach:

Many people know what NLP means. For your convenience, NLP = Neuro Linguistic Programming.

They say this is the ultimate tool in self-development. Might be so. Still, this is a very questionable statement.

You may wonder “Why?

You see, one core concept in NLP, is the trigger.

Basically, it is a brainwave pattern that in certain conditions is connected to your inner world. Let’s study this a little.

Assume that at 8 years I live a very stressing event. That will flood my body with a certain overload of a certain type of energy. There are structures inside us, that memorize such events, and even lower energetically charged events. The difference, is… Yeah! The Trigger! There are events that are self triggered, and events we need to counsciously associate a trigger with it. When at your 8’s rush into a truck and survive without the slightest injury, well, you get a self-triggered event!

Everything that was inside you, might be remembered again and again, only by remembering, or even seeing a truck…

With those being said, this is the truth about NLP:

Although as a method it is undoubtable an extraordinary valuable tool, the way it is applied is totally wrong.


Easy to prove, hard to apply corrections!

Another core statement in any self-development training programs, including NLP, is THINK POSITIVE.

OK, this sounds great, but how to do it? They say that Norman Vincent Peale found the solution. Well, maybe he and other motivational writers, found a part of the solution.

Why? Well, think a few seconds at a subject. Pick a pen and a paper, or open a computer file, say, in OpenOffice or any other text editor/processor. Write a half page with your thoughts. Then do the following:

Count the negations YOU used in your text.

So… How many? 10? 20? 40? In how many total words written? Interesting problem!


In the following articles, I will go a little deeper.

Now, I‘m going to give you an example.

We are talking among some friends. During our discussion, someone says:

A fire argues?

What is happening in YOUR BRAIN? Will you use a negation? IS THIS THE FIRST WORD THAT COMES INTO YOUR MIND?

NOTE: ALL blog posts in this blog, are written in ZERO NEGATIONS LANGUAGE, The next level in NLP Neuro Linguistic Programming.

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What is ZENLA Project

First, let’s talk about the name.

ZENLA, stands for ZEro Negations LAnguage.

What means from a spiritual perspective a zero negations language?

Lots of books have been published about the importance of the subcounscious and the uncounscious, AND the fact that the subcounscious  works only with affirmations.

Both this aspects (the subcounscious and the uncounscious) of the energetic structures are of major importance for the human evolution and, especially in these times, as you already know.

NLP (Neuro Linguistic Programming) for instance, use certain concepts that deal with the brainwaves and the mechanism that govern human behaviour.

But NLP, is only one of the methods that involve energetic structures, invisible for the eye. Many books and movies have been published, about the “Zero Point Awakening” and all the phenomena involved by what is happening regarding Earth’s passage through the Photon Belt and the end of the year 2012. Gregg Braden, is one of the researchers that made available extremly valuable information about this specific subjects. Many other authors, such as Nale Donald Walsh, David Icke, Jasmuheen — just to give some other names — made important efforts to help people understand what is happening at a larger scale, from a cosmic point of view. It is generally accepted now the fact that everything in the Universe is Energy. Thus, what we are dealing with, can be expressed as various frequencies of the Energy, as it is known so far. Every form of existence, every form of Life, essentially, means a certain range of frequencies and this has been proved scientifically already. In spite of all those efforts and extremly valuable contributions to the general awakening process we are witnessing now, it is weird how two fundamental aspects escaped general attention:

1. The message exchange process. Acquiring knowledge and the process of passing the knowledge, essentially can be expressed as a process of messages exchange. In other words, we have a sender and a receiver. It is of a less importance what kind of receiver or sender we have. Now what is important to understand, is the process of communication itself.

After almost two centuries of long distance communications, we have experienced various methods and technologies.

Basically, we used two methods to send and receive messages and information.

The two methods are amplitude modulation and frequency modulation. Basically, it is the same phenomenon, but we percieve it differently, due to our logical thinking. We use to neglect the information we consider to be irrelevant so, when we speak of amplitude modulation, we mean that frequency variations during the energy exchange are at such a low level, that we call “technically neglectable”. What is important for us is the other method, the frequency modulation. Over the years, it proved to bring far more performance than the other method and now, frequency modulation, is so wide sprerad that we barely can imagine our lives without it. Can you imagine yourself without TV, cell-phone, radio, satellites, internet? Well, even if you can, I doubt you would accept to live in a world without communications. Would you?

2. The carrier frequency. Each message that uses for transmission the frequency modulation, uses basically a carrier frequency that is modulated (coded) with the message we need to sent. It is like a truck we load with some merchandise and we send it from one point to another, that is the destination of the truck load. Now, it is obvious that the safety of our transportation depends on the quality of the truck we use, its technical status and so. If the truck gets damaged before reaching its destination, huge delays in delivery might be encountered and extra-costs also will occure. It is the same with the carrier frequency of any message. If the carrier frequency is a low one, it will easily interfere with other frequencies and the original message gets scrambled. The receiver thus, has to be able to decode using an extremly advanced decoding algorythm, to be able to detect the type of distortion, its origins, its possible patterns of interacting with the original signal, and so.

This is where ZENLA Project comes in!

Almost 90% of what we learn, we learn from text messages. Books for instance. Now, probably more than 95% of the human knowledge is stored as text, be it in printed form, or in digital form, as it is the case lately.

Essentially, the most of the information exchange among humans, is under the form of text. Say, Yahoo! Messenger, or Skipe, or MSN, for instance, beyond books. Under such circumstances, it is very strange to me that we still communicate using negations in our language. Do you get my point?

Negations in a message, are the carrier frequency! Maybe you are shocked reading this, but this is the truth! Have you ever wondered why tons of positive-thinking literature bring in so low results? It took me almost two decades of thorough research to find out why. I read hundreds of books. All seemed to be logical, true, “doable” but still, results appear after long periods of hard working. Many people give up after a few years of hard work, becoming enemies of self-development programs and teachings. Why that?

How many $$$ have you spent on such books, obtaining results far beyond your lowest expectations? Well, now you know the reason they produce results only in certain cases. The carrier frequency is negative, thus, the positive message is diminished substantially. Why that? We will discuss that in another article. If you are interested to really improve your life, stay tuned!

BTW: You may check this article for negations, using the search function. IF you find any negation in it, just put a comment pointing to it! 😉 🙂

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